June 23, 2008

Dr. Emma: While I was doing some cleaning this weekend, I found an engagement ring in my boyfriend's sock drawer. I was completely taken by surprise! We haven’t been talking about marriage at all. Now, the more I think about it, I'm not sure I really even want to marry him! Am I just getting cold feet, or does my hesitation mean he's not the one for me?

– Maxine D., 33

June 18, 2008

Dr. Emma: My friend's girlfriend sucks. I try to be nice and supportive of him and their relationship, but she doesn't make it easy. She has a sour disposition toward all his friends, but is, of course, as sweet as apple pie with him. How can I keep hanging out with them without wanting to punch her in the face?

– Bo D., 29

June 13, 2008

Dr. Emma: A few weeks ago I began dating a guy I've had a crush on for almost a year. He was always flirtatious with me, but I had all but given up on him when he finally asked me out. Now that we're actually together, I find that the reality doesn't quite match up to my expectations. Maybe I just need to give him time?

– Kathleen M., 29

June 9, 2008

Dr. Emma: I've been married and divorced 3 times. I'm a 54-year-old woman and I'm just wondering if there's any hope for me ever finding a decent man? Or is it three strikes and I'm out? Game over?

– Trudy T., 54

Trudy, instead of thinking "game over," how about changing the game? You just need a new set of rules:

- Love Is Earned, Not Yearned.

- Trust, Not Lust.

- And most importantly: Get Real.

June 2, 2008

Dr. Emma: I've been dating this guy for a little over a year. When I met him, he was working in a coffee shop and didn't have much ambition. Since we've been together, he finally got a respectable job, but I still don't get the feeling he's serious about building a career. Any advice?

- Sherry L., 34

Ah, the old "fixer-upper." He's "a diamond in the rough." He has such "potential." And all he needs is a little "direction."

May 29, 2008

Dr. Emma: Two months ago, I ended a relationship with a guy who, on paper, was totally Mr. Right: great job, great looking and great in bed. Turns out he was also, on paper, very married. He texted me yesterday to let me know he finally left his wife. I'm tempted to go back to him, but I'm not sure. Help!

- Diane C., 29

May 27, 2008

Dr. Emma: I've been happily married for seven years. My husband is loyal, supportive, and responsible. He's also the opposite of exciting. Increasingly I find myself drawn to a younger man I work with who has made it obvious that he's interested. I'm not looking to end my marriage, but I must admit I think that a little fling might be just what I need right now. Should I risk it?

- Dani W., 37