June 9, 2008

Dr. Emma: I've been married and divorced 3 times. I'm a 54-year-old woman and I'm just wondering if there's any hope for me ever finding a decent man? Or is it three strikes and I'm out? Game over?

– Trudy T., 54

Trudy, instead of thinking "game over," how about changing the game? You just need a new set of rules:

- Love Is Earned, Not Yearned.

- Trust, Not Lust.

- And most importantly: Get Real.